 Oral Sex - Why It's Important For an adult to be happy in a relationship they need to be satisfied in all areas of their relationship from physically, mentally, emotionally and sexually. While sex can not make a relationship last it can break a relationship if one or both parties are not sexually satisfied. Sometimes oral sex and foreplay is forgotten or pushed to the back burner where sex is concerned. Other times people do not realize that for their partner to be satisfied they need more than just penetration to be satisfied with the sexual relationship they have with their partner. Learning how to give a blowjob or go down on a woman can be the key to a great sexual relationship. Many women can not achieve an orgasm from just penetration alone. The area that needs to be stimulated on a woman’s vagina is not located inside of her vagina rather on the outside in the labia. This is called the clitoris and can be found at the top of her vagina. It is a bud shaped, usually small and sometimes refereed to as a button. When this is stimulated either from the tongue, mouth or finger of the woman’s partner or herself a climax or orgasm can be achieved. With just penetration alone, 75% find it hard to achieve an orgasm. With out an orgasm a woman might become sexually frustrated or unsatisfied with the sexual relationship. Although men can achieve and orgasm or ejaculation during penetration they also enjoy oral sex as something different and exciting for them. Men enjoy have oral sex because the feeling of the inside of their partners mouth is different than the feeling of being inside a woman’s vagina therefore it offers them a different option. Not to mention that visually it can be very stimulating to a man to watch his lover or partner perform oral sex on him. Learning how to give a blowjob to your partner can be very satisfying for him. Learning how to give a blowjob or performing other oral sex acts can be very exciting to both parties involved in they are both clean and their genital areas are well maintained. You can also make cleaning or shaving each other part of your foreplay leading to oral sex. Making oral sex fun and exciting for both parties can lead to each partner being sexually satisfied. Being sexually satisfied can help to improve other areas of your relationship such as emotional closeness and physical stimulation. While not everyone can be a great oral sex partner right away, being able to talk about your wants and desires in this area will help your partner know how to please you and make for a satisfying sexual relationship.  |